What Is Self-Defence Really?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
I think the most interesting conclusion I\u2019ve made is that self-defence is a martial art in it\u2019s own right and should be taught as such. It is an entirely separate category from aikido, jujutsu, kendo, krav maga, savate, wrestling, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That may seem like a pretty bold statement but it isn\u2019t. It only seems that way because we don\u2019t understand what self-defence actually is. There is a massive misconception that self-defence is fighting. The thing is that it\u2019s not. Therein lies the problem. If it were just fighting then all those adverts would be correct. There is a caveat to that though. They would only be partially correct. Any system that does not teach all elements of combat is lacking and therefore less than effective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019ve raised several questions there so let\u2019s take a look at them and consider the answers. The first is, \u2018What do people think self-defence is?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\nSelf-defence Is Not A Fight<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Unfortunately many people that \u2018teach\u2019 self-defence equate it with a prolonged fight. They think that the ability to go toe-to-toe with someone until you win is a requirement. There is a concept lodged in their minds that they have to remain there and fight back. I grant you there are some circumstances where that is true, but they tend to be because neither group (attackers and defenders) can leave. There is a great quote from Randy King on this subject that I love, \u201cAlways leave them a face saving exit.\u201d In a self-defence scenario your primary goal should probably be to leave (broadly speaking, because there are so many ways in which that may not be the case). Leaving is the opposite of fighting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They also think that they will see the attack coming. There are different types of violence and in some of them you won\u2019t see it coming. The first you\u2019ll know about it is when you feel an impact. You are not going to learn to defend against that in a dojo. I recently had someone tell me that aikido knife defences were more than adequate because knife attacks are generally carried out by an untrained idiot with their mums kitchen knife charging you from over 3 metres away. In actual fact the statistical reality is that they predominantly start from 30cm away and the blade is hidden until the first of many rapid stabs takes place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If It’s Not A Fight, Then What Is It?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
The second question that I\u2019ve raised is, \u2018If self-defence isn\u2019t fighting then what is it?\u2019 This is where it gets interesting. Granted, actual physical combat is an element of self-defence, in the same way that nikkyo is an element of aikido, or a hook is a part of boxing. For effective self-defence you need to understand all of the elements, not just one. You can\u2019t study all the myriad forms of nikkyo and claim you can teach aikido. You\u2019re missing far too much of it for that to be true. Self-defence is the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Some of the elements that are generally missing are an understanding of:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- The law.<\/li>
- Types of violence.<\/li>
- Places where violence happens.<\/li>
- Why violence happens.<\/li>
- Hormonal responses.<\/li>
- What to do after a fight.<\/li>
- De-escalation.<\/li>
- Conflict communication.<\/li>
- Your own personal limits with violence.<\/li>
- Pre-strike indicators.<\/li>
- Threat assessments.<\/li>
- Victim profiles.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
This list goes on and on. Those are just some of the elements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You Won’t Learn This In A Dojo<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
It is worth noting that most of them are not going to be taught in a standard dojo setting. Learning about these requires specialist training, understanding them takes regular practice. This doesn\u2019t mean that learning a martial art for self-defence is a wasted endeavour. Training in how to fight is still a requirement for self-defence, it\u2019s just that it\u2019s a small part of it. If it were a large part of it then mma fighter\u2019s wouldn\u2019t lose street fights as often as they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ultimately, there are many elements that go into making up effective self-defence, and fighting is only a part of it. Given that there are so many disparate elements to self-defence claiming that you can learn \u2018effective self-defence\u2019 in a martial arts class is highly disingenuous. Understanding this simple concept will lead you to realise a very simple truth:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Self-defence is an art in it\u2019s own right and should be taught as such.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
*Note that he had no input into this blog post. The mistakes are all mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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